In a world of struggles and disappointments, pain and setbacks, one of the most important things we can do for others is encourage them. Below are 10 ways to do just that.
Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary defines “encouragement” as “something that makes someone more determined, hopeful, or confident.” In 1 Thessalonians 5:11, the Bible tells us, Therefore encourage one another and build one another up.
What are some simple ways we can encourage others?
In everyday life:
Give genuine praise and encouragement to family and friends. This can come in the form of how much you appreciate them, value them in your life, or just how much you love them. Little notes of encouragement are big hits. For some ideas on how to encourage your kids, see my post 7 Ways to Encourage Your Children (and for additional ways to show your children you love them, join me next week for my post, 9 ways to show your kids you love them).
Did you get excellent service at a restaurant? Tell the waiter and the manager. Did someone at local business go above and beyond? Let them know! The lady who signs members in at our local YMCA always has a smile on her face. She is quick to go the extra mile. I recently told her how much we appreciate her, and I also let her boss know. This can also be done by completing the comment card or quality-of-service questionnaire available at many businesses.
My daughters are fond of teasing me about the fact that I’ve never met a stranger. But you don’t have to be extroverted to share encouragement. What about letting the janitor/custodian know how appreciative you are that they keep your place of employment/a local business clean? What about telling the clerk at your grocery store you appreciate the hours they put into their job and their patience in dealing with all types of customers?
Encourage a mom. Motherhood is a hard job at times, and what mom doesn’t need a bit of encouragement? A quick word or note letting a mom know she’s doing a good job means a lot. You can even encourage a stranger! What about that mom in the long line at the grocery store with a hungry infant and grouchy toddler? We can discourage by giving a “judgmental” look or we can encourage by asking if we can help unload her groceries onto the conveyor belt or even by a simple sentence, “Oh, I remember those days!” and a smile.
Doing motherhood well is not for the fain of heart. Whether a mom dedicates her life to raising her children at home, works outside the home, or a combination of both, moms need encouragement.
Encourage a dad. It’s tough to be a dad in today’s culture, where dads are oftentimes viewed with disrespect. Yet, there are many excellent dads doing their best to provide for their families, lead them spiritually, and help their children be the best they can be. Encourage a dad by praising him for his commitment to his wife and children, for the times he goes to work—even when he doesn’t feel like it—and for all the millions of tasks he performs to make the household run more smoothly. A small token of appreciation, like a bag of his favorite treats, can go a long way to encouraging him.
Encourage by mail. In my book, 77 Ways Your Family Can Make a Difference: Ideas and Activities for Serving Others, I give ideas on how to Create a Card Ministry. Why not send a card to someone you know is having a difficult time and let them know you are praying for them? This can be done anonymously, or to someone you know.
Sending a card for no reason is especially meaningful in a time when handwritten notes are rare. How about a card detailing a favorite memory with the recipient?
Encourage other women. What about hosting a Girls Night Out? More details are found on my post Sisters in Christ Group.
Encourage on Social Media. Retweeting, saving, liking, reposting, and sharing someone’s post is an encouragement. Rather than scrolling past, bless the writer of the post, as well as recipients in your timeline with a “like” or “share”. One of the things I enjoy doing each morning is going through my blog list and “liking” blog posts I find especially helpful or entertaining.
Encourage by text. In a world full of busyness, sometimes a supportive text (sometimes for no reason at all!) can be the most encouraging.
Encourage an author. Did you just finish reading a book that you absolutely loved? Don’t be shy about it—spread the word! Post a positive review on Amazon, CBD, Barnes & Noble, or Goodreads. (By the way, this means more to authors than you will ever know—trust me on this one!)
Encourage a neighbor. In our fast-paced society, many of us have never met the people who live in our neighborhoods. Why not go on a walk and stop to greet the neighbor mowing his lawn? Or deliver some goodies during the Christmas season? We were so busy this past Christmas that neighborhood treats didn’t get made, so we decided to make New Year’s treats and deliver those around the neighborhood instead.
Each day, we all have a chance to be either an encourager or a discourager.
Which one will we choose to be?
You may enjoy these other blog posts:
15 scriptural reminders of God’s comfort
6 ways to stick with homeschooling (when you want to give up)
Penny Zeller 
Amen. In every moment, we have the opportunity to share the love of God. 🙂
Well said, Melissa!
I loved your suggestions on encouragement. I want to be an encourager and found some of your suggestions helpful. I have already started a mail encouragement ministry to the single ladies in our church (never married or widowed – some of whom are no longer able to attend). I make my own cards and send a few each week. I went through the church directory to find who they are. It gives me great satisfaction to be able to do this. I also try to encourage mothers with small children whose husbands are on the praise team, work, or ?? And occasionally the dad’s who’s wives do those things.
Now I need to enlarge my encouragment group by doing some of the other things you suggested outside of church folks.
Thanks for the ideas. I don’t do any of the other social media available except facebook.
Hello Gladys, thank you so much for stopping by. What a wonderful mail encouragement ministry you have! Thank you for all you do to encourage those around you!
I love these ideas!! We can never overdo encouragement!!
Thank you, Evelyn! And thank you for always being such an encouragement and a blessing!
Thank you for posting this. Your article will help readers to be kind to others. Let’s start being more kind and compassionate to others.